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Hm. Good question.

Getting busted is a great way.

Getting hooked on some substance is another one.

The third way seems to be on the upswing. Looks innocent in the beginning. Even looks like a good idea. But it is as deadly as the above two.

It is getting a boy friend while you are working.

I have been there. I have seen it. The beginning, the middle and the end.

When you get in a relationship while you are a provider, the seed level, the consciousness level of the relationship that comes to you is not healthy.

You really are not available. You really can’t be quite honest. You really can’t fully give yourself to a relationship.

So what do you do?

You should choose, but of course, you can’t. Or at least it is not that easy. Your whole life is set up to generate the kind of income only this kind of work can generate, and just because you have a guy who is interested in you, doesn’t mean he is going to provide.

Your whole attitude is set up to be a provider and maybe that is what he likes… maybe he is lazy, maybe he is selfish, who knows.

I have NEVER, in my 21 years in this business, have seen a relationship that succeeded, if it started on the top of being an active provider.

One reason is that the other party, if he doesn’t know what you are doing, is not being honest with. If he does know, he will use you, and will always hold it against you.

From a sick seed only sick plant can grow, and the seed of that relationship is sick.

If you stop working, suddenly you will become needy of him helping you financially: that is another sureproof way to destroy a relationship.

If you don’t stop working, and try to ride two horses at the same time, you can’t do well either.

I spoke with an advertiser a few days ago. We had spoken before, and I was stunned by the immense tension that I heard in her voice. She told me she just started a relationship. Can you imagine how she comes across on the phone? Can you imagine how she is in the bedroom?

I have been there. I have destroyed my business. It took me five years or more to recover. If ever.

Had I continued working without interruption, I would have been able to retire — with money — in another 2-3 years. This way I was penniless, poor, humiliated, abused for 3-4 years, and continue to be struggling to this very day.

My advice: don’t do it. And I know what I am talking about.