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I just paid my rent today, storage tomorrow, websites a week from now, and so on, and so forth. It is expensive to provide advertising for this many people and it is expensive to accommodate 40-50 thousand people that visit the site.

I have been scrambling to make ends meet.

No, I am not saying that you aren’t… far from it. I am just allowing you to see into my life.

I now have more paying advertisers than ever, thank God, but even with that, it is tough. Last year I stopped taking courses, stopped traveling. I haven’t eaten out for more than two years. I also started to buy my food at Aldi’s, that is a small grocery store with no selection, so I get to go there with my minimalist shopping list, and only buy the items that are on my list. No temptation.

I have been attempting to use creative methods to increase revenue, so far in vain.

One of these methods is to offer a trade: you put up an ad for me that goes to fling, and I give you premium advertising, that cost $50 a month.

So far that scheme netted me $35, while the ads I have given out are worth about 300 bucks. Some girls put it on a page no one ever visits, and to the bottom of that, to make the trade really really a fair trade. I give you nothing, now give me a good placement. (if you can’t hear it, I am being very very very sarcastic.)

Then I got this email today:

Fling.com is a horrible site. I had it on a page of mine and someone that
used it said all the
Ads led him to pay more money. He also noticed that many gals responded
with the same written email, just a different name.
I took the link off because I want people to trust the links that I put up.
But if it works for you have fun.

signature omitted for privacy

My answer:

sorry, Fling has been
paying my bills for the past 4-5 years.
You girls only give me about 1300 a
month, and half of it goes to my isp…

If every US girls gave me $5 a month I
would not have to have any such ads on
my site… but I have girls that have
been on my site for 13 years and make
hundreds of thousands of dollars a year,
more than half from my site, but would
not want to spend a penny with me.

But what goes around comes around, in
the form of being busted, getting sick,
and the like. Not like I wish that on
anyone, especially not my “customers”
but that is how the laws of the Universe
work.

That just gave me an idea of writing a
blogpost about this.

Thanks for the “push”

OK, so what the heck am I talking about when i say laws if the universe?

I am talking about the “Law of Cause and Effect”? (What goes around comes around…)

It says that every cause has an effect, and every effect must have had a cause.

What is an effect? Getting sick is an effect. Getting a great client is an effect. Getting into trouble is an effect. When everyone is in trouble but you, you seem to live in a bubble, untouchable. That is also an effect.

The word “effect” does not mean negative or positive. Its polarity depends on the “cause’s” polarity.

The law says that the effect must be the same kind and the same strength as the cause.

Unfortunately, there is time separating the cause and the effect, and it is often hard to connect the dots.

To make things more complicated, you can create a cause in one area of life, and get an effect in another one. Like the dishonest business man who makes money hands over fist but his wife leaves him. Or his heart gives out… Bummer. One needs to have a ph.D. to figure this thing out. Right?

Wrong. You can be PROACTIVE which means that you can design your actions in life to be positive causes. That way you can expect positive effects across the board.

I, personally, had no idea about this until about five years ago, and the first 55 years of my life was a downward spiral… almost all my actions brought me misery, trouble, pain, illness, poverty, etc. etc. Bad relationships, bad luck, bad health, bad people.

Since I learned about this, and changed my actions, life has been looking up.

So what do I do? Actually, quite a lot.

It hasn’t been easy, but it is working. I now sleep better, find solutions to problems I used to have, I am more optimistic, and the last area, my finances, is holding up: I am still paying my bills, I am not behind on any of them, I don’t owe any money… not many people can say that nowadays, am I right?

OK, why am I writing this article? Actually, I have two reasons:

1. I want to educate You. Why? Because I care about you.

   I want you to arm yourself with useful knowledge in this difficult period.

2. I would like to encourage you to give back where your receive. If you appreciate the free services you have been enjoying with me, you can start with donating $5 to me. Mail your donation to Sophie, 4465 E Genesee St #270, De Witt, NY 13214. Or paypal it to me. Go to pay pal and send me what you think you want to send.

I promise I won’t get mad at you if you don’t send me anything. Why? Because getting angry is a powerful cause that will make bad things rain at me… and I don’t want that. Would you?