Comments on: Is It Magic or Is It Marketing? http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/ A blog to educate escorts to use marketing tools... Thu, 20 Nov 2008 08:12:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: JeanaPaige http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-16 JeanaPaige Thu, 20 Mar 2008 15:53:20 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-16 That brings me back to the wonderful question that I have run into many times in filling out interviews on different boards... What do you think makes you different then all the other companions out there? OR What makes you feel as if you are a better companion then others? I don't really see that there is much I can add or say that many other ladies haven't said already. I feel what it comes down to is {ACTION} Personality, Self confidence, self worth and what you are saying here is how we present ourselves in front of our customers and represent ourselves to the industry in our advertisements. It's true if you make someone think that they cannot go through a week without you then they won't. If you tell them long enough that you are #1 in this area and then you back your own words up with the best service you can provide when you see your clients and new clients then they become just as great advertisers for you than you can yourself. As long as you back up your words with the action to prove to them you are what you say you are then the domino affect you are looking for will start. When I would go to a interview for a job I would not go in thinking I need this job bad or I'm going to sink, I always went in with a great attitude and let them know that their company needed me and why I felt that they needed me. I would carry myself in the manner that I knew what I was doing no matter if I did or not. It always worked for me. It's not that you automatically stand out on your own you have to make yourself stand out and be remembered. That's when you become different. That's when you can illuminate yourself and get that second call. That brings me back to the wonderful question that I have run into many times in filling out interviews on different boards…
What do you think makes you different then all the other companions out there? OR What makes you feel as if you are a better companion then others?
I don’t really see that there is much I can add or say that many other ladies haven’t said already. I feel what it comes down to is {ACTION} Personality, Self confidence, self worth and what you are saying here is how we present ourselves in front of our customers and represent ourselves to the industry in our advertisements.
It’s true if you make someone think that they cannot go through a week without you then they won’t. If you tell them long enough that you are #1 in this area and then you back your own words up with the best service you can provide when you see your clients and new clients then they become just as great advertisers for you than you can yourself. As long as you back up your words with the action to prove to them you are what you say you are then the domino affect you are looking for will start.

When I would go to a interview for a job I would not go in thinking I need this job bad or I’m going to sink, I always went in with a great attitude and let them know that their company needed me and why I felt that they needed me. I would carry myself in the manner that I knew what I was doing no matter if I did or not. It always worked for me. It’s not that you automatically stand out on your own you have to make yourself stand out and be remembered. That’s when you become different. That’s when you can illuminate yourself and get that second call.

]]> By: Rsweething http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-14 Rsweething Wed, 19 Mar 2008 20:24:13 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-14 This is great advice and it is so true. After reading this and really taking a look at myself I believe I have been hurting myself without even realizing it. After reading this I will definitely be more careful in the way I carry myself in the future. Thank you so much for sharing this great info. Hugs, Raquel This is great advice and it is so true. After reading this and really taking a look at myself I believe I have been hurting myself without even realizing it. After reading this I will definitely be more careful in the way I carry myself in the future. Thank you so much for sharing this great info.

Hugs,

Raquel

]]> By: ALEAnDallas http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-13 ALEAnDallas Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:22:01 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-13 Hmmmm... The NY situation was not a case of sunshine and light. This governor was an egomaniac jerk whose self esteem relied on some idea that he was able to afford some high dollar product, like he was part of some mega-rich and connected persons' club. It had nada to do with the escort he hired. Dealing with this type of agency.. the women are not individuals but products. He would have seen any escort they provided is my guess. This is the same dynamic that happens in high end topless bars where the managers and ladies fawn over someone who comes in regularly and spends a great deal of money... and in casinos they treat high rollers with extra adulation. If a client has a weak personality they become addicted to the feeling of power... and most of these personality types are NOT fun to be around. This guy spent 80k on a prostitution agency *illegal* (since they were negotiating and selling sex and legal ESCORTS only sell time, thank you) It is not the same dynamic as for independent ladies. There are marketing and interpersonal skills to develop but it is not as simple as A B and C... and giant sums of money will follow. if you are only interested in making a load of money... hook into and exploit a client's emotional weakness that seems to be more of the lesson for big dollars. Hmmmm… The NY situation was not a case of sunshine and light. This governor was an egomaniac jerk whose self esteem relied on some idea that he was able to afford some high dollar product, like he was part of some mega-rich and connected persons’ club. It had nada to do with the escort he hired. Dealing with this type of agency.. the women are not individuals but products. He would have seen any escort they provided is my guess. This is the same dynamic that happens in high end topless bars where the managers and ladies fawn over someone who comes in regularly and spends a great deal of money… and in casinos they treat high rollers with extra adulation. If a client has a weak personality they become addicted to the feeling of power… and most of these personality types are NOT fun to be around.
This guy spent 80k on a prostitution agency *illegal* (since they were negotiating and selling sex and legal ESCORTS only sell time, thank you) It is not the same dynamic as for independent ladies.
There are marketing and interpersonal skills to develop but it is not as simple as A B and C… and giant sums of money will follow.

if you are only interested in making a load of money… hook into and exploit a client’s emotional weakness that seems to be more of the lesson for big dollars.

]]> By: Megan MacPherson http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-12 Megan MacPherson Tue, 18 Mar 2008 18:34:07 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/is-it-magic-or-is-it-marketing/#comment-12 So true! When I'm "twinkling my nose" so to speak, business just flows, but when my self esteem is low, I am suddenly totally broke. That's all for now! Thanks! Megan So true! When I’m “twinkling my nose” so to speak, business just flows, but when my self esteem is low, I am suddenly totally broke. That’s all for now!

Thanks!
Megan

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