Comments for Escort Marketing Blog http://www.outcall.net/blog A blog to educate escorts to use marketing tools... Mon, 25 May 2009 21:21:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on I’ve set up a new blog to feature mature escorts by Daily News About Blog : A few links about Blog - Monday, 25 May 2009 13:26 http://www.outcall.net/blog/ive-set-up-a-new-blog-to-feature-mature-escorts/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Daily News About Blog : A few links about Blog - Monday, 25 May 2009 13:26 Mon, 25 May 2009 21:21:32 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/ive-set-up-a-new-blog-to-feature-mature-escorts/#comment-53 [...] I’ve set up a new blog to feature mature escorts [...] [...] I’ve set up a new blog to feature mature escorts [...]

]]> Comment on Are you a reaction machine? by mpaladina http://www.outcall.net/blog/are-you-a-reaction-machine/comment-page-1/#comment-52 mpaladina Wed, 20 May 2009 21:28:33 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/?p=128#comment-52 You are so right, Sophie. I'm a Unity student and look to balance and the light for clarity (no, I'm not a religious nut). Too many people react to every day events like they are ingrained in stone. Too many make 'mountains out of molehills'. Yes, there is a recession, yes, there may be slowdowns, but if you are one of the best at what you do, no one will forget that. Stay focused, stay sane and definitely, think before you speak or react! You are so right, Sophie. I’m a Unity student and look to balance and the light for clarity (no, I’m not a religious nut). Too many people react to every day events like they are ingrained in stone. Too many make ‘mountains out of molehills’. Yes, there is a recession, yes, there may be slowdowns, but if you are one of the best at what you do, no one will forget that. Stay focused, stay sane and definitely, think before you speak or react!

]]> Comment on The Changes on Craigslist Erotic Services Category by sherryred http://www.outcall.net/blog/the-changes-on-craigslist-erotic-services-category/comment-page-1/#comment-51 sherryred Thu, 14 May 2009 05:01:00 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/the-changes-on-craigslist-erotic-services-category/#comment-51 I was listening to CNN (also sometimes known as Communist News Network, LOL) when the subject of the state of CT threatening to sue CL, basically because of the recent murder of the young masseuse, came up. I am not going to speculate and say that this unfortunate young woman lost her life because she didn't screen properly. There are agencies getting busted and for the most part they are pretty thorough with screening. When I worked for an agency, I wound up at client's homes that were less than desirable. This business is riff with all walks of life, men and women alike. I've met a few providers that are a few cards short of a full deck, LOL. BUT, I have to say this about Craigslist. I advertised with them a few years ago. The reason I stopped was because of the sudden (or so it seemed) influx of young women, with no sense of class, who permeated the sites with graphic pics, their exact location (ie; "Hi, I'm Hot Lips and I am at the Village Motel on exit 21, cum see me baby") and then there's the money shot. If I WERE a guy, I would move on to the next ad, only because that would not be the kind of woman I would want to be intimate with, on any level. These ads are screaming "I have a substance abuse problem and your money is going to help me get more". Some of the girls don't look any older than 16. It was becoming an online sweat shop for escorts. I'm a member on another well known board. Some of the girls who had been advertising on CL were asking this morning what had happened, as they were having trouble posting. One asked where else she could post, besides, Backpage, etc. I told her, for my money, outcall.net and bestgfe.com was all I used. I get more than enough business and I feel "protected" in the mere fact that both Sophie and the administrator of the other site monitor what is going on. They take an interest in how the machine works. And the men who frequent these sites seem to have a little more going for them. The bottom line, if a girl is going to choose this profession she should be educated in all areas...and let's face it, advertising should be the first lessoon. Just like when you walk into an office the receptionist is the first person you see....so you only have one chance to make a good impression. Your ad is your first impression. In closing, I wouldn't worry too much about CL...there are so many other avenues to pursue and doing so will place you so much higher than your CL counterparts. It would probably be best to steer clear for awhile anyway until the dust settles. (or the powers that be wind up getting caught with THEIR pants down..)..LOL I was listening to CNN (also sometimes known as Communist News Network, LOL) when the subject of the state of CT threatening to sue CL, basically because of the recent murder of the young masseuse, came up. I am not going to speculate and say that this unfortunate young woman lost her life because she didn’t screen properly. There are agencies getting busted and for the most part they are pretty thorough with screening. When I worked for an agency, I wound up at client’s homes that were less than desirable. This business is riff with all walks of life, men and women alike. I’ve met a few providers that are a few cards short of a full deck, LOL. BUT, I have to say this about Craigslist. I advertised with them a few years ago. The reason I stopped was because of the sudden (or so it seemed) influx of young women, with no sense of class, who permeated the sites with graphic pics, their exact location (ie; “Hi, I’m Hot Lips and I am at the Village Motel on exit 21, cum see me baby”) and then there’s the money shot. If I WERE a guy, I would move on to the next ad, only because that would not be the kind of woman I would want to be intimate with, on any level. These ads are screaming “I have a substance abuse problem and your money is going to help me get more”. Some of the girls don’t look any older than 16. It was becoming an online sweat shop for escorts.

I’m a member on another well known board. Some of the girls who had been advertising on CL were asking this morning what had happened, as they were having trouble posting. One asked where else she could post, besides, Backpage, etc. I told her, for my money, outcall.net and bestgfe.com was all I used. I get more than enough business and I feel “protected” in the mere fact that both Sophie and the administrator of the other site monitor what is going on. They take an interest in how the machine works. And the men who frequent these sites seem to have a little more going for them. The bottom line, if a girl is going to choose this profession she should be educated in all areas…and let’s face it, advertising should be the first lessoon. Just like when you walk into an office the receptionist is the first person you see….so you only have one chance to make a good impression. Your ad is your first impression.

In closing, I wouldn’t worry too much about CL…there are so many other avenues to pursue and doing so will place you so much higher than your CL counterparts. It would probably be best to steer clear for awhile anyway until the dust settles. (or the powers that be wind up getting caught with THEIR pants down..)..LOL

]]> Comment on Irina Palm… one of the best films I have seen in a while by Sophie http://www.outcall.net/blog/irina-palm-one-of-the-best-films-i-have-seen-in-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Sophie Mon, 11 May 2009 17:44:46 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/irina-palm-one-of-the-best-films-i-have-seen-in-a-while/#comment-50 Hey Sherry, you are so right. What I'd like to add is that people who are willing to consider make-believe, are enjoying this profession a lot more, build lasting and intimate friendships with customers, and feel great about themselves. How I recognize them is that they always have great sessions, they always talk adoringly about clients, they are upbeat, look forward to meeting a new person, and even more to see a returning client. They never put themselves down, they never consider that they did a sexual favor (I mean that!). All in all, these fortunate and smart women have a role to play, they identify with the role while they playing it, and are a lot happier than the average adult service provider. The Luisa character in the movie worked for money, Maggie-on the other hand-worked for pride and service. What a difference! Sherry, thanks again for being great. You are one of my idols... and I love you. Sophie Hey Sherry, you are so right. What I’d like to add is that people who are willing to consider make-believe, are enjoying this profession a lot more, build lasting and intimate friendships with customers, and feel great about themselves.

How I recognize them is that they always have great sessions, they always talk adoringly about clients, they are upbeat, look forward to meeting a new person, and even more to see a returning client. They never put themselves down, they never consider that they did a sexual favor (I mean that!). All in all, these fortunate and smart women have a role to play, they identify with the role while they playing it, and are a lot happier than the average adult service provider.

The Luisa character in the movie worked for money, Maggie-on the other hand-worked for pride and service. What a difference!

Sherry, thanks again for being great. You are one of my idols… and I love you.

Sophie

]]> Comment on Irina Palm… one of the best films I have seen in a while by sherryred http://www.outcall.net/blog/irina-palm-one-of-the-best-films-i-have-seen-in-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-49 sherryred Mon, 11 May 2009 13:36:53 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/irina-palm-one-of-the-best-films-i-have-seen-in-a-while/#comment-49 I, too, am a big movie buff, having been involved in the acting world for so many years. The world of escorting is a little like acting also, you are creating a fantasy for your client. A good escort will be an even greater actress, because your client should never be able to tell the difference. Just as in any "job", if you're not enjoying yourself, you should find something else. There will be times when you don't feel like escorting, the beauty of this "position" is if you are smart and not greedy and make sure you put money away for a rainy day, you can take some time off to regenerate. When you come back your clients will have missed you and they will be able to truly enjoy the (fairly) new you! I am an older provider and used to feel like I was competing with the hot young things that have permeated the business. I have clients that have tried these young girls, (no offense to the young girls, though) and while some of them have been satisfied, alot of them felt there was something lacking in the warmth. I think this comes from the lack of experience, the idea of being intimate with an older man makes them uncomfortable, etc. I know that's how I felt when I was a younger provider. The trick I think is to behave like an actress that is working for that Oscar. No one should know you're acting but you! Be safe out there! I, too, am a big movie buff, having been involved in the acting world for so many years. The world of escorting is a little like acting also, you are creating a fantasy for your client. A good escort will be an even greater actress, because your client should never be able to tell the difference. Just as in any “job”, if you’re not enjoying yourself, you should find something else. There will be times when you don’t feel like escorting, the beauty of this “position” is if you are smart and not greedy and make sure you put money away for a rainy day, you can take some time off to regenerate. When you come back your clients will have missed you and they will be able to truly enjoy the (fairly) new you!
I am an older provider and used to feel like I was competing with the hot young things that have permeated the business. I have clients that have tried these young girls, (no offense to the young girls, though) and while some of them have been satisfied, alot of them felt there was something lacking in the warmth. I think this comes from the lack of experience, the idea of being intimate with an older man makes them uncomfortable, etc. I know that’s how I felt when I was a younger provider. The trick I think is to behave like an actress that is working for that Oscar. No one should know you’re acting but you!
Be safe out there!

]]> Comment on What is the best way to bring good traffic to your site? by Miss Anonymous http://www.outcall.net/blog/what-is-the-best-way-to-bring-good-traffic-to-your-site/comment-page-1/#comment-48 Miss Anonymous Sat, 09 May 2009 03:16:44 +0000 http://www.outcall.net/blog/?p=123#comment-48 This is the age old question I have too. I see your points and have thought of having people so what you mention as well. I have to continually update my tags etc and have google trained to know I always have updates. ( Even harder with a flash site next to impossible) But in someways having markerters may be better option in long run VS paying these other companies huge amounts to advertise with no guarantee your money will bring traffic. They all add up fast. Plus as the provider mentioned she does not have time to hang out in chat rooms nor associate with others in cliques. I can relate. To me it is just unprofessional and generally it seems it could not bring in the higher caliber gentleman that I aim to meet. And I prefer not to hang out and gossip. I find it unladylike. But that's just me. But then what do I know? hehe Maybe one day there will be an easier answer for us. I do know there are SEO companies geared to the adult industry now days. Finding one that holds up to their promises is another;) Good luck to all the webmistresses out there. Send me some too:-) And a hug to all my fellow lone wolves that prefer to stay out of the "limelight" of gossip and cliques. Thanks Sophie. XOXO This is the age old question I have too. I see your points and have thought of having people so what you mention as well.

I have to continually update my tags etc and have google trained to know I always have updates. ( Even harder with a flash site next to impossible)

But in someways having markerters may be better option in long run VS paying these other companies huge amounts to advertise with no guarantee your money will bring traffic. They all add up fast.

Plus as the provider mentioned she does not have time to hang out in chat rooms nor associate with others in cliques. I can relate. To me it is just unprofessional and generally it seems it could not bring in the higher caliber gentleman that I aim to meet. And I prefer not to hang out and gossip. I find it unladylike. But that’s just me. But then what do I know? hehe

Maybe one day there will be an easier answer for us. I do know there are SEO companies geared to the adult industry now days. Finding one that holds up to their promises is another;)

Good luck to all the webmistresses out there. Send me some too:-) And a hug to all my fellow lone wolves that prefer to stay out of the “limelight” of gossip and cliques.

Thanks Sophie.
XOXO

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