Disclaimer: I am an opinionated woman. I am right more often than I am wrong, but in no ways should that mean that I am always right. Read the below mindfully. If it is true about you: good. If it is way off: write it off as fairy tale, or misunderstanding. But please, understand that every piece of communication means something about you to the reader. Be mindful of that. Design it, if you can. And avoid the major traps… Your business will thank you for it.
Entries from June 2008
Your ad style… continued
June 27th, 2008 · No Comments
Tags: Foresight · escort advertising · escort how to info · how to information
What does your ad style say about you?
June 23rd, 2008 · No Comments
How you do anything… is how you do everything. And though people don’t know that consciously, they do know it subconsciously. So the style of your ad “heralds” the experience one will have with you while doing business.
Tags: Foresight · Mindset · escort advertising · escort how to info
Oh Well… And Parallel Realities
June 21st, 2008 · No Comments
Watching movies can be a wake up experience. The Lake House has been like that for me.
Tags: Mindset · personal communication
Do NOT Be afraid of the dough
June 19th, 2008 · 1 Comment
He knew that the dough may collapse if he works it too much, so he was barely touching it. That is when the baker said that famous — Don’t be afraid of the dough. Shape it, form it, do stuff with it. If it goes bad, you’ll get another piece and will work with that.
Walt Disney went bankrupt seven times before he got it right and crated his billion dollar Disneyland.
Tags: Mindset · personal communication
Technical Difficulties…
June 19th, 2008 · No Comments
Welcome Back. If you haven’t, please subscribe to my RSS feed. ThanksMy blog is experiencing technical difficulties with the word “dough”… I wonder if it is a mindset.
By the way: did you know that being poor, as a statement, and being broke, as a statement, reflect very differently on you, and your mindset, and attract [...]
Tags: how to information
Shall I have my Phone Number in My ad?
June 19th, 2008 · 2 Comments
My answer is: if you like to talk to people (as opposed to booking all your appointments in email), then by all means make it easy for people to call you. Just make sure you have a lot of info in your ad, so that you don’t have to spend your time telling people what is in your website… etc. etc.
Tags: Foresight · escort advertising · how to information
Backdrop
June 12th, 2008 · No Comments
Backdrop is that invisible clue that gives meaning to everything that happens. It is unconscious, and it rules. For most, the backdrop we have makes us unhappy, unsuccessful, unhealthy… Where is that flashlight?
Tags: Mindset
Your Life is Based on Your Beliefs… Good News or Bad?
June 12th, 2008 · No Comments
Beliefs are hard to change because they don’t show up as beliefs. They show up as the truth… Most beliefs keep you broke, sick, lonely, unhappy, fat… It’s high time we figure out how to change them. Right?
Tags: Mindset
You don’t read your emails… not really
June 11th, 2008 · No Comments
A few years ago I was in a seminar. The leader wanted to prove a point and asked us all to close our eyes. We could hear the chalk on the blackboard as he was writing as we waited. Then he asked us to open our eyes and read what was on the blackboard. “Paris in the spring” I said to myself… but didn’t raise my hand. Other people did. He picked a good looking woman from the back of the room. She proudly read “Paris in the spring”. The leader asked: “Are you sure?” She was sure, light as day, what was written on the blackboard was “Paris in the spring.”
He asked her to go closer, and she read it from there… Paris in the spring. He asked her to go up to the blackboard and touch the words as she read them. When she got to Paris in the… we all gasped. There was another the… what was really written on the board: Paris in the the spring…
We all listen that way. We already know what’s there, and stop looking, stop listening.
Where else do you relate to people like you already know them? That you already know everything there is to know and no one can contribute to you?
Tags: Escort Business · Mindset · email marketing
Mortality… Urgency… What are You Doing With Your Life?
June 10th, 2008 · No Comments
Escorts are mortals… not that I didn’t know that… but still. When someone dies you are shocked. What will happen to their website? Her pictures? Her blog? Who will remove them from the internet?
In my years of being a webmaster I have had many fathers, sons, lovers, husbands, write to me and ask me to remove their dead loved one’s ads, pictures… but what if the one you loved wants to keep you around like that… half naked, naked… and you are already gone… These thoughts prompted this article.
Tags: Foresight · personal communication
